FET: Kinky BDSM Dating App

Name: FET: Kinky BDSM Dating App
Rating: 4.37777 (6329 reviews)

Social Networking

View in App Store

FET: Kinky BDSM Dating App

Social Networking

4.4

6.3K ratings

Age Rating

17+

Seller

Ideawise Ltd.

In-App Purchases

$6.99 – $90.99

View in App Store

Price Intelligence:

Average for the Social Networking category The most popular in-app price for the app

Grow your in-app revenue

while we take care of your subscription management.
Mobile SDK by Qonversion.

Learn more

Price Intelligence based on:

213,534

apps aggregated

8,172,290

in-app prices defined

main categories

In-App Purchase Price (Subscription or Non-Recurring)

vs. average for the Social Networking category, $, by region

Build, analyze, and grow in-app subscriptions

with the most powerful mobile SDK for subscriptions

Explore

User Reviews for FET: Kinky BDSM Dating App

Asked to verify, then blocked

Fet just asked me to verify my account, I took a picture and it asked me if I wanted to upload the picture, but I don’t have my makeup done or anything “presentable”, so I didn’t want it to be uploaded to my account. It also gave me the option to upload a picture from my gallery, but my most recent pictures are already on my profile. I uploaded a picture that’s already on my profile, and my account was blocked. I can verify I am me any way you need me to, but if my account remains blocked, I want my money back! I paid for a month of membership and have only been on here for maybe a week. Yea I have submitted my complaint, I’m waiting for a response.

Blankspace0195, Jan 12, 2023

Vanilla Wafers

The app itself would be okay if it didn't crash all the time, it's relatively user friendly, but having to uninstall and reinstall it a few times a day took away from that. Conversations not loading up was the biggest reason, but sometimes pages freezing happened too.The big problem, like anything revolving around BDSM and Kink, is all the vanilla wafers thinking those of us in the lifestyle are easy. Most of the men I chatted with were clearly clueless about anything relating to the lifestyle, and just slapped the title Dominant or Master on themselves without having any idea what those titles mean. It was fun throwing actual terms at them, and them having no idea what was going on. So unless you're looking for mediocre sex with two hump chumps, who are nothing more than 50 Shades of Grey weekenders, I wouldn't use this app.Because this app has a lot of clearly unskilled players, I definitely recommend on passing it by. Go to your local munches and play parties, make friends in your local community. Your life may very well depend on it.

ColoradoTaurus, Feb 03, 2023

Beginner friendly

I’m pretty new to this type of space and honestly it’s been so much easier to use than normal dating apps. Most are respectful of my time and my comfort. I’ve already made a couple friends! I wish the genders and sexuality’s were a little more inclusive and diverse. As just being marked as transgender makes some believe that I am Mtf instead of Ftm, which I am. But other than that It’s great. The layout if the app is very easy to understand. And I’m having fun using it!

Conneriskitty, Jul 27, 2022

Review

So I downloaded this app two months ago at first I really loved this app it seemed nice enough. However, in my first month with this app I discovered that it has sever flaws in its system. For example, the lobby at times can act like a mob. Where they pretty much go after newbies and trolls alike. Not thinking anything of it I joined in until I felt like it was a bit too much. Minus the snarky attitudes the next item on the list is the double standards for members. If someone pays they can blatantly post the N word in lobby and have no repercussions. However, if you role play then all of a sudden you the bad person. In my second month I discovered that you can use your points that you collect to achieve a membership. Which is great and all but it isn’t any better than a non paying member. Lastly if someone goes after you butting into your conversation when it isn’t warranted and they happen to be petty or childlike enough to report you the site will not contact you they just ban you. Over then that have fun getting screwed over. I am throughly disgusted and, glad for the ban. I do not nor will I ever recommend this site to anyone.

CoutDoe2021, Feb 26, 2021

Not very good.

I downloaded this thinking a dating site for kinky people is pretty awesome. Issue is u have to pay for basic things such as seeing who you even matched with and just after a point u have can’t swipe on people without paying. Pretty ridiculous. It’s very buggy to where I can’t verify my pics and it was even a struggle to get one picture on there. To get more than that i just can’t.Update: they’ve fixed some of the bugs but still very buggy. You can’t see who crushes you and can only see a few people who visited or matches n what not. There’s still a major bug with getting verified. It won’t work. When I take the selfie it flashes my screen but that’s it. Doesn’t actually take any photo or anything.

deathking4119, Oct 09, 2022

I was banned

I told an email that they would hear for me. Well here’s what I got. I was on here the first day and they banned me on here. I don’t care what someone says be careful about them banning. They need to fix this because I’m a lesbian and most of the people in there were men and I am not directed to that besides that I was just talking to someone on there who is perfectly normal and all of a sudden it happens my account was blocked or done something to not not the first time I’ve been blocked on a site just because somebody doesn’t like what I’m saying but that’s beside the point apps need to be more aware of what they’re doing to the people who are completely normal who don’t want to be about a certain type of life. Like our world is already messed up and nothing like this has to happen all the time.

djJoydanger, Jun 16, 2023

WORST APP I’VE BEEN ON

seriously the worst social media app i’ve ever been on, I tried this app hoping to find more community in kink spaces, it seemed fun at first, but if you use it for even a week you’ll know it’s a glitchy, unknowing mess. I have had ALL of MY photo’s taken completely off because I got harassed by men on there reporting me for “fake pictures” and the app completely took all of my very own selfies that belong to me off and gave me a penalty point FOR NOTHING EXCEPT POSTING MY OWN PICTURES, I couldn’t even try and go against the claim, they have no options for those who are wrongly reported, and wrongly harassed by men. on top of that mess there is so many glitches, like “processing photo’s” it just stays there for days on end, messages get sent twice by glitch, they will stop the entire messaging system out of the blue without warning for ‘planned maintenance’ when there is not even a website to go to, and I seriously think for me, who has paid for up to 20$ for a membership to JUST SEE PEOPLE none of this should be happening.

I LOVE BUBBIE, Jul 10, 2023

Doesn’t send notifications

I’m so grateful something like this exists!An app to connect kinky folks!Yes, there are issues with moderating the forums.Yes, there are people saying things they should not.Yes, there are too many fake profiles which front as advertising for spicy pages or SWers.But that is all getting somewhat better.My issue revolves around the programming of the app itself. Most of the matches I’ve asked about it all say the same thing: no one gets accurate badges or notifications from the app, or even gets them at all in most cases.Emails? Oh yeah! They have no problem filling your inbox the instant you get a match, message, spank, visitor, etc.But the simple task of having the app tell you that you have messages through a badge or push notification seems beyond the capabilities of the developers.Unless you already are using it. Then when you close it, you get notifications.🤦‍♂️Besides that? It’s a good app. More in depth than Tinder, no questions with only inane answers to choose from like OKCupid and no conversations that lead to nowhere like Bumble.It’s nice to see kink shaming going away.Apps like this are assisting in demystifying and destigmatizing kink and BDSM.But for god’s sake, at least do the bare minimum and make your app tell me when I have messages!It cannot be that difficult.Unless it is designed that way to increase engagement with the app itself…😳🤬🤯

Leader Man, Aug 01, 2022

Ugh

This app is awful. It matches me with people not in my area constantly who are way too far away. The ratio of guys to girls is probably like 50:1. Women are showered with tons of attention and guys get none probably. Even good looking guys like me. It constantly shows me to guys when I input I am into women. Also all these strange people men & women view my profile for some reason but they are never the kind of quality person I’m looking for nor do I feel comfortable with them viewing my profile so easily. Wicked lame. Kind of creeps me out not gonna lie. I can’t tell which women are real and which are fake. Plus there are so many guys so it’s a waste of time anyways cause you’re trying to compete with all these thirsty dudes and it’s just horribly demoralizing and self esteem crushing.

næœn, Oct 17, 2023

Be careful or you could be banned

I was enjoying my chats on here but I was banned. I asked a simple question about whether or not I could link to another site in my profile. They banned me for asking a question to the welcomer in my private chat. The reason I asked is because I have a lot more pics than just the ones I’d share during chat. I didn’t want all my pics to be on Fet because you are re-routed to their website for certain ones. I was trying to overcome body-shame and maybe I went overboard with the exhibitionism and desire to connect. But honestly, without beautiful pictures of bodies these apps can’t stay in their business. There’s no need to draw lines about where someone is allowed to put their own body’s image, on one website or more. I didn’t share any links to any other websites that had photos of me - I asked the leaders, and instead of being told “No you can’t do that here” I was banned without a word about it. I wasn’t sure if this was the only reason - the “Upgrade” button was still coming up each time I tried to access content. I pretty much made it three days before I was banned. If you enjoyed chatting, thank you, you were all very beautiful. Those few of you I interacted with a lot - you helped me on my healing journey.

Nick814L, May 11, 2023

Description

BEING NORMAL IS BORING... Tired with the bog-standard dating apps? At FET we're unique, kinky and unapologetically open.

Whether you’re kink-curious or a BDSM lover, you'll be at ease in our diverse and inclusive kinky BDSM dating community. Strap yourself in for BDSM dating with fellow kinksters that's out of this world! DISCOVER KINKSTERS JUST LIKE YOU Finding and staying in touch with fellow kinksters is easy with our 24/7 newsfeed, free messaging, forum and live chat. If you're looking for that special sub-one, there are kinksters for everyone out there in the Kink & BDSM dating community - or right here at your fingertips. With just a few simple taps, start chatting with kinksters near you. WE’RE EDUCATIONAL! New to the FET lifestyle, or an experienced kinkster looking to develop your kink and BDSM knowledge? FET is a safe place to learn and explore. With our rich BDSM and kink educational resources, get inspired by any subject in the FET universe. Whatever your kink, we support and encourage our BDSM dating community to share and learn from each other to master their kinky lifestyle, so come on in, get kinkd up with us! LET US SERVE YOU FET is the place to uncover more about Kink and the BDSM lifestyle, find munches, kinky parties, BDSM dating and more. You’ll be sure to find like-minded kinksters who share your fantasies. No matter where you are - whether playing in the deepest darkest of dungeons or out and about - the FET community is here for you! WHAT’S IN YOUR KINKY BAG OF TRICKS? Whip your profile into shape. Upload that sultry selfie and tell kinksters a bit about your kinky self. ;) Safely share your photos and show off your kinky FET lifestyle... BDSM = SAFETY & PRIVACY FIRST With great kink comes great responsibility #SSC: For added confidence and a #kinktastic BDSM dating experience, anyone can verify their profile for free on FET. Having a verified kinkster profile is an excellent way to show other kinksters in the BDSM dating community that you're authentic and not a bot. And with privacy and message filters, we put you in control of what you want to view and share. WELCOME TO YOUR NEW KINKY WORLD Our vision is to be the world's most trusted Kink & BDSM dating community. A safe, sane and consensual home for kinksters and the kink-curious that demystifies alternative lifestyles and provides a user-friendly dating solution. --- The app is free to download and use. FET also offers an optional subscription package. Subscription Service Conditions:  • The membership costs 18.49 USD / 19,99 EUR / 17.99 GBP for 1 month; 63.99 USD / 69,99 EUR / 63.99 GBP for 6 months; and 90.99 USD / 99,99 EUR / 90.99 GBP for 12 months (Prices may vary slightly depending on location and currency). • Payment will be charged to your iTunes Account at confirmation of purchase  • Your subscription automatically renews unless auto-renew is turned off at least 24-hours before the end of the current period  • Your account will be charged for renewal within 24-hours prior to the end of the current period  • You can manage your subscription and switch off the auto-renewal by accessing your Account Settings after purchase  • You cannot cancel the current subscription during the active subscription period • Any unused portion of a free trial period, if offered, will be forfeited if you purchase a subscription to that publication.  More details here: https://www.fet-app.com/en/terms All personal data is handled under the terms and conditions of FET's privacy policy. More details can be found here: https://www.fet-app.com/en/privacy